We're you older then your BPD ex?

[Beware of Junk Psychology...]

Seems to be common for them to choose or be involved people who are older then them. I'm ten years older then she is, and she mentioned she prefers older men.

[Rayban]

Seems to be common for them to choose or be involved people who are older then them. I'm ten years older then she is, and she mentioned she prefers older men.

[Fr4nz]

Actually I was 6 months younger.

[GreenEyedMonster]

I was 8.5 years younger than my exBPD.

[Herodias]

I'm 16 years older, the current gf is 8 years younger. He has been with women all different ages inbetween!

[Learning Fast]

Older indeed.  I was 10 years older than my ex.  My replacement was almost 12 years older.  His replacement is roughly 9 years older.  Additionally, both are multiple rungs lower on the economic ladder  as well compared to her ex-husband who is toward the top of the compensation food chain as a private equity attorney.  There seems to be a trend/theme developing here... .

LF

[Confused?]

6 years older

[zeus123]

BPD do not care about the age of their target(partner) because they primarily looking for narcissistic supply in the relationship. they view us as an accessory that is required and not as love partner. so anyone could become a partner regardless of age,looks,etc... .

[Jazzy]

I am 6 years younger but his  new gf is 10 years older than him.

[steve195915]

9 yrs older.  One of her replacements was 14 years older.  She said she likes older guys.  I think she thinks older guys are more stable.

[enlighten me]

I was 3 years older. Her ex husband about 6 years younger, her last boyfriend about 15 years older and he new one the same age (I think). A wide spread.

[neverloveagain]

10 years older.

[JohnLove]

7 years older.

[blackbirdsong]

Two years older

[enlighten me]

Just to add to this. In the relationship did you end up or do you feel you have taken on more of a parental role than that of a partner no matter what the age gap?

[UserName69]

She was 6 years older but sometimes I really had the feeling that I was dealing with a little girl instead of a woman.