relapse or just flashbacks

[Didntdeservethat]

Been seperated now for nearly 5 months nc for 3. My ex pw suffered from  Bpd, Bp and scitzophenia. In the last year of a very difficult 3yr relationship i was trying to support her escalating rages by seeking treatment lifestyle changes anything to save us. All that happen was the rages increased in intensity and she tried to have me arrested for DV 3x. The final ocasion she staged an event and had me arrested for DV. My lawyers interviened and forced me to cease contact. For the following week i recieved 475 missed calls and 175 txt msgs but when she could not get through she left and went back to her country. The following week i faced court and the charges were thrown out. For the next 2 months she stole around 85k from me threatendd me via text (mistake) and painted a picture to all of her friends that she had been a victum of an abusive relationship. She did manage to poisen many of my friendships and numerous people are no longer in my life. She had a group of hackers monitor and make non specific threats for the last3 months and then last week reappeared via taging me into some fb pics. Appears she has gone back to her socialite ways but interestingly she has changed her profile pic to read "peace is my drug". I really feel like i was abused used (she spent around 300k) and then at the end she has used my suffering and integrity as currency to gain others support and sympathy. Not one of OUR friends has reached out to me which i find so upsetting. In fact everyone has distanced me.

I am so upset by all of this i thought j was doing well getting back to work and life i even started seeing another woman but it appears she is a gold digger like the last.

I really dont know what to do,  so stuck and i need desperatly for someone to explain why this happended to me.

One by one she manged to turn eveyone against me, even close friends have offered to help me with my anger issues. This upset me enormously as i never was violent to her. She actually was the one who wold shout escalate and when i tried to hug her and assure her she would punch and hit me.

Please i need some advice, i feel I've gone backwards.