Hello everyone
I've gotten better after breaking contact last weekend. Discovered just what my exBPDgf is capable of and she's textbook BPD.
Not sure what else she's dealing with but that's no longer my concern.
I spoke to our police dept about the rape eligation and her suicide gestures on fb, they are well aware of her behaviours.
My son is still with her and her bf, I spoke to people who know her bf, he's an alcoholic, codependent and long history of criminal activity among other mental health issues.
So I don't feel bad for either one of them as they can drive each other mad. I am however very concerned about the safety of my son.
They are trying to manipulate me into following their plans and if I choose not to comply they will give my son to another family.
Just shows the depths of their depavity and illness, as someone here so amply put it, we don't understand them because we are not thinking inside those pointy heads. Thank God we are not them. Lol
My secret formula? My advice?
With my ex = I get sick
Stay away from ex = I get well
Works every time

I wish you all well on this painful walk and have a wonderful day!