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So I'll try to make my long story very short. Dated a S/N for about two years off and on, went NC for about several months in which he then started a relationship with someone else. Of course I broke NC after about seven months and went back to the S/N who then discarded me within a week. 4 weeks later he was engaged to the OW. since then I have been NC, haven't peeked on social media, changed my cell phone # etc. Also since then I myself have moved on, met a great man, gotten
married and have a baby on the way. Things have really been going great for me after dealing with two years of BS from someone who incapable of any form of empathy.
last week sitting at work and I get a call from a Private #. The caller called twice and was a woman. The first call she informed one of my supervisors that she dialed the wrong # and she was trying to call an insurance company. ( Ok). The caller then calls back a few min later, in which I answered the phone, she proceeded to tell me once again that she was trying to call an insurance company.( I work in Healthcare) Then this individual proceeded to tell me that she's five months pregnant and proceeded to ask me if I knew what that feels like( I'm currently five months pregnant) she then asked me if I was married( I got married in February of this year) then she asked me If I had any other kids( which I do, I have one) For someone who missed dialed a number I was very suspicious with all the personal questions I was being asked about myself and did not provide her with any information. At the time of this incident my husband was on hold on my cell phone and heard the entire conversation. He stated that was extremely weird and someone was trying to get information about me. I also spoke to the other ladies in the office and they stated the same thing. For some reason I have a feeling my ex P/N/S snooped on my FB( which is private) and wanted to get more information. I really feel that this creep saw that I moved on from him and had one of his minions at work do a prank call to get information on me. Before my discard we worked about 3 min from each other so he would have the other delivery guys tell him if I was still working at the company. Now that I work about 2 hours away, for the same company but he has no way to physically spy on me. I feel that this was his way of getting information.
(I work for the same company just a different location and he knows that)
I feel that its very curious that this call came right after Mothers Day. The same time the charm came from him the last time I broke NC
These questions were way too personal for someone who "accidentally" dialed the wrong # from a private #.
What do you all think?
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Hey stacma04, If your gut tells you that something fishy is going on, it probably is! Next time, don't take the call, is my suggestion. LJ
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