Idea to get him for conseling?

[Zvetochek]

Hi everybody, I am new here and it so much refreshing to read  this site. I am married 6 years to person probably with BPD. All I read is very familiar. I am sorry for my English, it is my second language. We are ready for divorce. This silent treatment and ignoring me I can't stand any more. I offered him many time marriage counseling, of course he refused. Now I said maybe we should divorce and he agreed. I hoped he will say "let's try again ", but he doesn't. After reading this site I have idea how to get him for counseling. I am going to say that "maybe there is something wrong with me, maybe I need medical help and counseling . Would you go with me?" I understand how difficult for this people to be not right. Ok, I agree to be with this diagnose if it will help. He is really good person, ready to help everyone and me too, but in beginning of our relationship. Now it seems I am his enemy and worse person in his life. Maybe it is crazy idea but I already do not know what to do. Thanks for any thoughts.

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