Thanks everyone! It has been a very busy day of changing my name... .so much work! I have allot to do still... .too bad men don't do this,

Wow Lifewriter you reached a thousand... .I wasn't even looking and just check- I am 1137! I can't believe it! I guess that means we have really been doing allot of healing I feel good... .I have been deleting all of the saved emails and pictures from my computer. My lawyer said I do not need any of it anymore. I have some in a thumb drive I can save awhile because I don't look at it. I closed out my "stalking account" on Facebook. I have told myself it is time to heal. On one hand, I would like to know what is going on with them, but I have decided to look at this as a break. I took a break from Facebook and I didn't really miss it. I can take a break from stalking,

I have him blocked on my regular account and I never intend on unblocking him! I still somehow found myself feeling bad for him today... .I like your comment gotbushels about his look coming from a show. I think he is trying to fit in with her actually. His lawyer had a beard as well. Her ex had a beard, so maybe he thinks that is how he is supposed to look. His belt looked like he borrowed it from her too,

Anyway, it was really strange today... .not like a sad day in court... .more like this is ridiculous! Still no word from his parents and I am not sure I am supposed to say anything... .it is just so weird. Sad really how people do this stuff to each other. Really sad... .I am going to try harder than ever now to put some of this behind me. Even my lawyer said time to move on and get healthy. I still say only people have been through this understand. Oh, we had a big storm and tornado scare today out of the blue too! What a day it has been!