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« on: June 17, 2016, 10:48:59 AM »

I'm Divorced! I walked in with my sister. I noticed him sitting there right away! She didn't even recognize him- he had a beard which he never had before and some crazy western belt! I never looked at him, but I was aware he kept looking at me. He was very nervous. I had my nervous laugh so I seemed happy. He and his lawyer excused themselves- I suppose so he wouldn't be shamed in front of his lawyer! As they walked out the door, he looked at me then my sister said, "See ya never again" as she waved at him, Laugh out loud (click to insert in post) He is afraid of her and she hates him-lol They left, we said all we had to say, the judge signed off and off we went! The woman at the desk said she does not usually see someone so happy after-lol Same thing at the social security office! Now I'm at the DMV- spending the day changing my name! I'm free at last! It was way better than I had thought. I haven't let it sink in yet- I'm too busy to let it! Can't have crying eyes on my new drivers license!
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« Reply #1 on: June 17, 2016, 10:59:57 AM »

Hallelujah!
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« Reply #2 on: June 17, 2016, 11:05:17 AM »

he had a beard which he never had before and some crazy western belt!

I won't read too much into what show this is from 

Have a restful weekend Heron:)
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« Reply #3 on: June 17, 2016, 11:27:57 AM »

Herodias,

Congrats on your divorce.
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« Reply #4 on: June 17, 2016, 11:34:48 AM »



I'm so happy for you.







LET'S HAVE A PARTY!



Love

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PS. This is my 1000th post on BPD Family!

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« Reply #5 on: June 17, 2016, 12:02:44 PM »

The last thread is finally severed.   Smiling (click to insert in post)  WooHoo!  Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)

Time for healthy people that will build you up and be a positive force in your life. 
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« Reply #6 on: June 17, 2016, 08:47:28 PM »

Thanks everyone! It has been a very busy day of changing my name... .so much work! I have allot to do still... .too bad men don't do this, Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)  Wow Lifewriter you reached a thousand... .I wasn't even looking and just check- I am 1137! I can't believe it! I guess that means we have really been doing allot of healing     I feel good... .I have been deleting all of the saved emails and pictures from my computer. My lawyer said I do not need any of it anymore. I have some in a thumb drive I can save awhile because I don't look at it. I closed out my "stalking account" on Facebook. I have told myself it is time to heal. On one hand, I would like to know what is going on with them, but I have decided to look at this as a break. I took a break from Facebook and I didn't really miss it. I can take a break from stalking, Laugh out loud (click to insert in post) I have him blocked on my regular account and I never intend on unblocking him! I still somehow found myself feeling bad for him today... .I like your comment gotbushels about his look coming from a show. I think he is trying to fit in with her actually. His lawyer had a beard as well. Her ex had a beard, so maybe he thinks that is how he is supposed to look. His belt looked like he borrowed it from her too, Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)  Anyway, it was really strange today... .not like a sad day in court... .more like this is ridiculous! Still no word from his parents and I am not sure I am supposed to say anything... .it is just so weird. Sad really how people do this stuff to each other. Really sad... .I am going to try harder than ever now to put some of this behind me. Even my lawyer said time to move on and get healthy. I still say only people have been through this understand. Oh, we had a big storm and tornado scare today out of the blue too! What a day it has been!
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« Reply #7 on: June 18, 2016, 10:32:55 AM »

Oh, we had a big storm and tornado scare today out of the blue too! What a day it has been!

Smiling (click to insert in post) close call indeed.
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