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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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Author Topic: I need BPD to be incurable  (Read 1761 times)
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« Reply #60 on: November 03, 2016, 06:54:59 AM »

Hi one key,

The original title was: IMO BPD is incurable. And I think that for many sufferers, that will prove to be the case.

Do I need it to be incurable? Hmmm... .I think need is too strong a word. If I'm honest though, at this point in time, I would like to think that my ex will never be cured. My original point was, that a cure would involve insight into her thoughts and behaviours. Should that ever come to pass, she must surely feel such shame at her past actions that she would inevitably be as mentally ill as she is now.
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« Reply #61 on: November 03, 2016, 11:21:23 AM »

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