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November 23, 2016, 02:15:43 PM »
Not me. I was disappointed that you didn't send it.
Once I discovered you did. I was jubilant.
These "people" just don't get it. Your letter was clear, concise, and straight to the point, and being done you have nothing to lose.
I still advise against sending "pouring your heart out" type letters.
You kept your integrity. You took the high road. Good for you.
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Quote from: WhatJustHappened? on November 08, 2016, 03:56:55 PM
Thanks all.
Now that I have had some time to process this, I am quite concerned that she has some form of bi-polar or other mental disease. I saw this woman literally flip from a routine argument to violence in a second. She began to hit herself before hitting me. That's just really weird.
I can't fix this for her but I want her to get help. Any advice? I am also still really angry regardless and have no intention of staying involved. I am also betting that this is not the first time this has happened. Her Mom, from how she described it, went nuts years ago which leads me to believe there's more going on.
I am also concerned that she will become suicidal. She hasn't said anything but still.
I did send her an email in hopes that she will read it.
I know the feeling. My ex gave me several black eyes busted lips bruised face. She would hit herself making me get her alcohol. Ironically I got two CDVs... .false statements by her. At the end she discarded me. So I am free of abuse. I just pray I save our son. God is with me.
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