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steppie
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« on: January 17, 2017, 01:22:22 PM »

Hello,

I'm a 38 year old mother of 2 from Holland (The Netherlands). I fell in love with a man I'm sure of has BPD. I jumpen right in to it... .so in love... .gave up everything. After a few months I was really sure. This isn't right! We're not together anymore but he keeps comming back. I have a hard time dealing with it.
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« Reply #1 on: January 17, 2017, 05:28:23 PM »

Hi steppie,

Welcome

I'd like to welcome you to  bpdfamily. I'm sorry to hear that. Many of us can relate with things moving too quickly and missing / ignoring the red flags during the honeymoon phase of a r/s with a pwBPD.

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After a few months I was really sure. This isn't right!

What happened here in the r/s? What behaviors was your partner displaying?

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I have a hard time dealing with it.

I understand that it's really tough. You're not alone, many of us here can relate with you and offer you guidance and support.

I'm guessing that you've told him that it's over, he keeps coming back, are you safe?
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