it sounds like this news is a bit of a blow, understandably. its important to feel what you feel, honestly.
how are you feeling about this news? what do you intend to do?
My plan is to keep all communication through the lawyer until divorce is final.
At which time I know she will contact me and ask for help moving or storing Items.
That point I hope to release with grace.
Hard to say what she is telling everyone else, but for me I know I took the high road all along. She often said that I would get mean. That I would do all these horrible things in the divorce and that I will eventually cut her off.
Funny part is, she is the one that did all those things. I have never been anything other than supportive even though it was killing me.
I can walk away from all of this with my head held high and know in my heart at the end I can be proud of who I was and how I acted.
Which is more than I can say about who I was during the marriage.