Just broke up with someone who has BDP

[fashiongirl]

I just broke up with someone who has BDP. He lied about everything in his life. The relationship was short but extremely intense. He's trying to get me back and it's so hard to stay away from him. I've blocked him but I keep thinking maybe there was chance it could have been something. I want to shake myself. I think I'm what is called his favorite person. I'm scared that I'm addicted to the love and affection he gave me. I don't know what's real and what's not real.

[SinisterComplex]

I just broke up with someone who has BDP. He lied about everything in his life. The relationship was short but extremely intense. He's trying to get me back and it's so hard to stay away from him. I've blocked him but I keep thinking maybe there was chance it could have been something. I want to shake myself. I think I'm what is called his favorite person. I'm scared that I'm addicted to the love and affection he gave me. I don't know what's real and what's not real.

First, welcome to the fam. 

Second, is the person whom you broke up with diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)?

With that out of the way I encourage you to share more about your experience so you will receive more in-depth responses. Ask as many questions as you want and share as much as you feel comfortable with.

In the meantime please be kind to you and take care of yourself.

Cheers and Best Wishes!

-SC-

[fashiongirl]

Yes he was diagnosed and now is in DBT therapy.

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in short, what happened? what led up to this breakup?

[SinisterComplex]

Hey FG, just checking back in. Do you feel comfortable sharing more? Most importantly take your time, but try to give us some more back story and more details. You are safe here and there is no judgment.

Cheers and Best Wishes!

-SC-