Hi scribble and
Glad you found us and were ready to reach out for support; having a suicidal partner is a huge weight on you, and one that so many members here understand.
I made the mistake of telling my boyfriend that I think he might have BPD. I withheld it for a long time but he is getting to a dangerous point where he needs help, he’s self-destructive and has suicidal thoughts. I was trying to encourage him to get help and help him understand there may be solutions to his suffering. Now he will barely speak to me.
Do the two of you live together or separately?
Is he reacting in any other way besides not talking to you?