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[ola.123]

My wife almost certainly has silent bpd but of course im not a professional so im not allowed to say that even though im the only one who lives with or sees the things i see and deal with everything i try seems to make me look more crazy if i stay with my wife i think ill explode any other decision means i hate her ,ive been planning this for months and on and on endless horrible thoughts if i stay here our lives will be harmed extensively not physically. But if i leave i cant tell you how harmful that would be .

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[ola.123]

Thank you very much I am truly hoping this was the first step I needed to get help

[kells76]

Hi and welcome to the group, we're glad you found us!

BPD relationships are not easy, yet they can be improved, though it takes time.

How long have you and your wife been married?

Do you have any kids together?

What do you fear would happen if the marriage ended?