i can relate to being hypersensitive to what i perceive as efforts to control me. i have found that at times my boundaries can be a bit too rigid, and myself totally dismissive of legitimate complaints/concerns/relationship problems.
how do you think the two of you ended up together in spite of this?
The most magnetic attraction I have ever experienced with anyone. Why this happened I don't know. But we didn't last long. I bolted quickly - but not before I got hooked. The whole thing ripped me apart - his attempts at control made me bolt, but the familiarity I had with him made me feel like I had met my long lost childhood best friend. For once I felt understood by someone. Problem was he kept being manipulative and it's almost as though I've developed a major allergy to that. I really felt like I was being torn apart by both fear and attraction.
