People with BPD had difficulty being alone and tend to jump into relationships. After my multi-year relationship ended, it took her two weeks to find my replacement and blend families etc.
So true... this happened to me as well... going on 3 years dating... she was my ex wBPD near the end she really fell apart. started having sex with another guy then tried to say it just happened... next thing I know she was asking me if I would take her back and if I still loved her... then next thing I know she was rushing me off the phone twice and now she married a guy while she was away in her country... however she lives in NYC and is a citizen... boy my blood is boiling I felt the whole relationship was a waste... and the fact the whole family never said anything like this... how do you get married and it "just happens?" seems very planned.