Were you together long? How long since the break up? Think about it long I would advice, there may be nothing good there, just more heartache... .
We were together for about about 4 months, broken up for 3, NC 2. I know it seems short but wanted to marry her, I thought she was my soul mate. Im finding out that's what a lot of non's feel. The break up came out of nowhere, I was told that it wasnt fair for her to love me when I couldnt love myself. Last time I talked to her, she seemed like a different person. It was terrible. Here is this person that I fell in love with totally emotionless to me. Yes, I do need to think long about it. I know thats how she will still sound. I also dont want to seem desperate. This is tough!