Can I tell him I miss him?

[papayagirl]

It's been 3 weeks since I last heard from him (besides a snapchat he sent me on Friday). I miss him so much. Would it scare him away more if I texted him saying I missed him?

(No fight or anything caused him to ghost me by the way-we both realized we had very strong feelings for each other, he said he felt like he was in love with me, I reciprocated, he bolted and after a week told me he wanted to be alone and only responsible for his feelings).

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[once removed]

i dont think "i miss you", specifically, will help here. it might be perceived as a demand. he may not know what to do with it.

i think a more light and up beat form of contact would be better received. any ideas as to what that might look like? maybe something about something the two of you have in common?

[BPDBuddy]

I agree, if anything it may push him further away.