Ex BPD rebound relationship

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

Hey everyone, I recently was broken up with my ex for about 4 months now. We had a 8 month relationship, before all of sudden breaking my heart. Just one day out of the blue, she broke up with me, citing my "ignorance", for why she broke up with me. Every time I would ask her to elaborate, she would freak out on me, never giving me a significant answer. She's now with this new guy, who she started talking to only a month after our breakup. He live 3hrs away and visits her every weekend. She was a total ___ to me for the longest and I wouldn't succumb to her rudeness, maintaing my composure and was a gentleman about it. until finally on Halloween night I was DD'ing and saw her at the club. I waved and later on texted her, "be safe, I'm DD'ing, if y'all need a ride, just lmk". Well she did and when she was about to get out the car, she admitted that she's sorry for being such a ___ to me lately. This was before I knew she was seeing this new guy, keep in mind. A day later she added me back on Facebook and even stil had some pictures of us, even about two or three of us still kissing. She's with this new guy now, but they're not Facebook "official" yet, but they've been seeing each other for 3 months, so let's be real. . She even went on to say on twitter that "my most current ex (bless his heart) picked me from the bar the other night and I fist bumped him. When one of her friends asked on why we broke up, she citied "There was nothing wrong! He's a great guy, I just didn't see myself being with him in the future." Why would she lie and say that she didn't see a future with me, but then tell me it was my "ignorance"? I went through so many emotions this past few months, but I've come to the terms of acceptance and wish her nothing but the best. Perhaps im being too generous and nice, but that's just how I was raised, don't let other people's behaviors influence your life. I just need some opinions and wonder what y'all think. Greatly appreciate it.

[Andy84940614]

Hey everyone, I recently was broken up with my ex for about 4 months now. We had a 8 month relationship, before all of sudden breaking my heart. Just one day out of the blue, she broke up with me, citing my "ignorance", for why she broke up with me. Every time I would ask her to elaborate, she would freak out on me, never giving me a significant answer. She's now with this new guy, who she started talking to only a month after our breakup. He live 3hrs away and visits her every weekend. She was a total ___ to me for the longest and I wouldn't succumb to her rudeness, maintaing my composure and was a gentleman about it. until finally on Halloween night I was DD'ing and saw her at the club. I waved and later on texted her, "be safe, I'm DD'ing, if y'all need a ride, just lmk". Well she did and when she was about to get out the car, she admitted that she's sorry for being such a ___ to me lately. This was before I knew she was seeing this new guy, keep in mind. A day later she added me back on Facebook and even stil had some pictures of us, even about two or three of us still kissing. She's with this new guy now, but they're not Facebook "official" yet, but they've been seeing each other for 3 months, so let's be real. . She even went on to say on twitter that "my most current ex (bless his heart) picked me from the bar the other night and I fist bumped him. When one of her friends asked on why we broke up, she citied "There was nothing wrong! He's a great guy, I just didn't see myself being with him in the future." Why would she lie and say that she didn't see a future with me, but then tell me it was my "ignorance"? I went through so many emotions this past few months, but I've come to the terms of acceptance and wish her nothing but the best. Perhaps im being too generous and nice, but that's just how I was raised, don't let other people's behaviors influence your life. I just need some opinions and wonder what y'all think. Greatly appreciate it.

[Andy84940614]

I forgot to input that when she said she didn't see a future with me, she said "we decided not to date anymore". But she broke up with me, "WE" didn't decide anything.