I'm Pretty Sure He's Seeing Someone Else

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I've been dating a guy with BPD for 8 months. Kept taking him back . Just a roller coaster the entire time. We broke up once again and haven't heard from him for a week. He never goes thus long . I'm lost confused hurt mad.  I don't think he's ever been faithful to me. And pretty sure he has need seeing someone else. All of  a sudden its finally over I'm a wreck

[SuzyQ68]

I've been dating a guy with BPD for 8 months. Kept taking him back . Just a roller coaster the entire time. We broke up once again and haven't heard from him for a week. He never goes thus long . I'm lost confused hurt mad.  I don't think he's ever been faithful to me. And pretty sure he has need seeing someone else. All of  a sudden its finally over I'm a wreck

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[pearlsw]

Hi SuzyQ68,

So a week is a long time for him to be gone and not come back? Did he give a reason this time or you just suspect he is seeing someone else?

Want to let it out a bit more? What are you confused, hurt and mad about exactly? What is eating you up about this?

wishing you peace, pearl.

[Tattered Heart]

Hi SuzyQ68,

I"m sorry that you are hurting right now. What happened? Can you tell us a little more about what led to the breakup?

[Mutt]

Hi SuzyQ68,



It's been a couple of days do you have an update? Have you heard from your BPDbf?