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Author Topic: Re: My GF told me she doesn't want me and she is leaving my life (Pt 2)  (Read 1211 times)
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« Reply #60 on: March 03, 2018, 12:52:28 PM »

EdR, what do you recommend to Yuu?
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« Reply #61 on: March 03, 2018, 01:06:54 PM »

I think I made my point quite clearly.

It is not about MY recommendation. It is and always will be Yuu's decision. He is the master of his own life and own choices.

I would only refer back to my post and would ask Yuu to really think about these 2 options I have outlined. He could try this until eternity. That would be totally okay,  but he seems to lose himself in the process with zero guarantee of getting her 'reverted back'. I have seen that process in this thread for a while now and finally chose to say something about this.
Or he could follow his intuition, his feelings, less walking on egg shells. It might work, but most probably will fail.
But at least he would be true to himself.

Just my 2 cents.
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« Reply #62 on: March 03, 2018, 04:43:28 PM »

Hey everyone,

Yeah, so I decided on something,I am tired of all the fighting to get her and the stress of it and getting anxious and waiting for hours for her to reply and sending sweet texts only for her to ignore so yeah I am tired of all the pain... So I decided to let what flows flows, I mean if I can't do something about it why stress over it? Right, and she know how I feel about her and how I want us back so I am not going to initiate conversation or try to get her back or ask to meet and all that stuff, no I am done... I will live in hell and pain but it is better than that other pain. So if she talks I talk back if she wants to meet I'm Okay

The conclusion is whatever happens happens I am done fighting Smiling (click to insert in post)

It is not giving up but it makes no sense to play the game if you ain't gonna win... .

EdR,

Thank you very much for your honesty I respect that and I would like very much to check your thread just send the link

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Thank You all for your support and respectful opinions, I really really appreciate it, it has helped me a lot! It was great not feel alone facing all of this
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« Reply #63 on: March 05, 2018, 03:35:33 PM »

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