Sometimes all one can do is throw up their hands and say, "Whatever!"
Do you have anyone close by who can be there with you as he removes his stuff?
J
Yes, the conclusion I drew was that he was just going to show up out of the blue if I didn't agree to something soon. At least I got several days notice.
We have to be out of the house. I have to hold online meetings that day with a webcam and high-quality sound equipment that I can see him interrupting. My youngest won't be around him at all, and she doesn't drive. We have a dog he doesn't approve of that he might let out and not care where she goes.
He's broken off with everyone here and doesn't want anyone to know he's coming.
So we're taking certain things and hoping he keeps to his word to just get his stuff.