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Just doing my intro. I need all the help I can get. I feel like I had no choice but to run. I cannot go back home because the abuse will continue. Starting over at age 66 and I am waiting for the other shoe to fall. Thanks for being here.
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Hi Runaway! And welcome. I’m sorry that you’ve been enduring abuse. It sounds like you’re taking proper steps to remove yourself from the situation. If you’re comfortable in doing so, can you give us a little more insight into your situation? This can better help the members and staff here to understand your situation better. We’ve also found that opening up communication here can be helpful to other members that may be going through a similar situation. We’re glad you found us.
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Hi Runaway,
I’m sorry that you had to run away. When you can, tell us what happened.
You’ve found a great community that understands, and a safe place to work through this.
We’re here for you
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It sounds like you're in crises mode trying to cope with a very difficult situation. Hugs! I know how hard it feels to remove yourself from an abusive partner. Congratulations on taking a first step toward healing and reaching out! We are here to listen.
What is your current living situation? Do you feel safe where you are right now? Let us know how you're doing.
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Hi Runaway,
I am so sorry you are experiencing this situation. I had to flee suddenly from an abusive marriage myself just under 4 months ago. I know this is an incredibly emotional and stressful time for you. We are here for you when you feel ready to post again. This website is a lifeline of support for me and I hope you will continue to come back and let us know how we can help.
Blessings and peace,
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