How can I make the situation better when she is fighting loneliness?

[Spear82]

My wife has BPD How can I make the situation better when she is fighting loneliness,

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[NGU]

My wife has BPD How can I make the situation better when she is fighting loneliness,

Hi Spear82. And welcome.

It might be helpful to get a little more info.
For example, is she diagnosed or undiagnosed?
Is there anything going on right now that is causing her loneliness, or has this been a long-term problem?
Also, since this is BPD we're talking about, how does she treat you during the times when her traits are more pronounced? Is she receptive to your assistance/support?

-ngu