Lost: Feel like I'm breaking with nowhere to turn

[lostinlove86]

I am new to this but i need some hep or i guess some support from other individuals who have the same dis order as my wife. This is hard and emotionally draining. It seems like I can never do anything right and when I do it is not enough. I feel like i am more sad now adays then i am happy. And with having a toodler everything is overwhelming. I feel like I am breaking and i have nowhere to turn. Shes up and then shes down. And i ahve to watch what I say and if its not her way then its no way at all. I just need to vent and not feel like I am crazy.

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[sterlingblue]

lostinlove86,

Welcome!  I can relate to everything you said in your post.  I'm glad you're here!

I'm fairly new here as well, but in less than a month this site has already been so helpful.  You've found the right place!

I would love to hear more about your situation when you have the time and energy.  Until then, take care of yourself.

-sterlingblue

[pearlsw]

Hi lostinlove86,

I'd like to join sterlingblue in welcoming you here!

What is making you feel so sad?

Are the childcare duties falling mostly on your shoulders?

with compassion, pearl.

[RolandOfEld]

Hi lostinlove86, joining pearlsw and and sterlingblue in welcoming you.   You are not crazy and you have come to the right place to vent!

As husband to a BPD wife and with two young children, I can deeply relate to the stress of facing BPD and child raising in the same breath.

Please do take us a bit deeper into your situation and what got you to this point. Do you have any family or friends aware of the situation that can support you?

Sending you strength,
RolandOfEld