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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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« on: August 04, 2018, 05:35:16 AM »

I was clearing from my computer previous bookmarks, and out of curiosity, I clicked on this site's page. I was amazed on how much good a couple of months away from all the craziness can do. As of my last post, it has been three months since my BPD nutcase is out of my life. I was reading posts of people I was following previously, and kept wondering what the hell I was thinking on staying as long as I did. For what is worth guys, get out as soon as you can. Being around these crazy bixxxes is not worth a single second of your life. I came to figure that the only thing I miss is the sex. However, the price attached was my sanity. The trade was too much of a price to pay. I was able to move on in the company of a woman that truly loves me, and there is no comparison. Good luck to all of you!

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« Reply #1 on: August 04, 2018, 07:20:33 PM »

Congratulations on your new rs  

How long have you been broken up for? What happened?

Love and light x
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« Reply #2 on: August 05, 2018, 07:21:25 PM »

Hi GD39,

 

Thanks for checking in, your words gives hope to newbies. I'm glad to hear that you're happily in a new r/s. Take care!
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« Reply #3 on: August 06, 2018, 03:07:30 AM »

I needed to read this today. I am slowly starting to see the light at the end of this hell-tunnel, so hearing success stories like this helps. Thanks!
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« Reply #4 on: September 01, 2018, 07:26:33 PM »

Congratulations on your new rs  

How long have you been broken up for? What happened?

Love and light x

When I looked back, I we were broken for seven months. All she did was string me along. It was not until the final straw, when I pulled the trigger, that it became official. Of that it has been four months now, but as I said, it was already in the fritz for much longer. All it was a give and take. She will take, and I kept on giving.

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« Reply #5 on: September 01, 2018, 07:27:40 PM »


Glad it helped! Wish you the best of luck guys.
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« Reply #6 on: September 01, 2018, 07:29:19 PM »

Hi GD39,

 

Thanks for checking in, your words gives hope to newbies. I'm glad to hear that you're happily in a new r/s. Take care!


Thanks. I appreciate your words.
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