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GD39
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For what is worth guys, get out as soon as you can
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I was clearing from my computer previous bookmarks, and out of curiosity, I clicked on this site's page. I was amazed on how much good a couple of months away from all the craziness can do. As of my last post, it has been three months since my BPD nutcase is out of my life. I was reading posts of people I was following previously, and kept wondering what the hell I was thinking on staying as long as I did. For what is worth guys, get out as soon as you can. Being around these crazy bixxxes is not worth a single second of your life. I came to figure that the only thing I miss is the sex. However, the price attached was my sanity. The trade was too much of a price to pay. I was able to move on in the company of a woman that truly loves me, and there is no comparison. Good luck to all of you!
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Congratulations on your new rs
How long have you been broken up for? What happened?
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Hi GD39,
Thanks for checking in, your words gives hope to newbies. I'm glad to hear that you're happily in a new r/s. Take care!
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I needed to read this today. I am slowly starting to see the light at the end of this hell-tunnel, so hearing success stories like this helps. Thanks!
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Quote from: Harley Quinn on August 04, 2018, 07:20:33 PM
Congratulations on your new rs
How long have you been broken up for? What happened?
Love and light x
When I looked back, I we were broken for seven months. All she did was string me along. It was not until the final straw, when I pulled the trigger, that it became official. Of that it has been four months now, but as I said, it was already in the fritz for much longer. All it was a give and take. She will take, and I kept on giving.
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Glad it helped! Wish you the best of luck guys.
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Quote from: Mutt on August 05, 2018, 07:21:25 PM
Hi GD39,
Thanks for checking in, your words gives hope to newbies. I'm glad to hear that you're happily in a new r/s. Take care!
Thanks. I appreciate your words.
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