Constant anger and rage

[Depression = 72% of members]

I've been married for 2 years now. What seemed like romance from heaven turned into a nightmare. My wife constantly gets angry for small reasons and kept putting my kids in between us. Fyi, I was a widower with 2 daughters before getting into this new marriage. From the beginning my wife showed rage, incessant jealousy and what worries me the most, she gets into this rage and out of it as if nothing had happened. Recently I decided to leave her since the situation was not conducive to raise my 2 kids. She blames how she felt on me. I feel guilty leaving her and putting the marriage in a limbo. Need help.

[Nazeem]

I've been married for 2 years now. What seemed like romance from heaven turned into a nightmare. My wife constantly gets angry for small reasons and kept putting my kids in between us. Fyi, I was a widower with 2 daughters before getting into this new marriage. From the beginning my wife showed rage, incessant jealousy and what worries me the most, she gets into this rage and out of it as if nothing had happened. Recently I decided to leave her since the situation was not conducive to raise my 2 kids. She blames how she felt on me. I feel guilty leaving her and putting the marriage in a limbo. Need help.

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[pearlsw]

Hi Nazeem,



I am sorry to hear the struggles of your young marriage and the impact this has had on the family.

What made you suspect BPD was the issue here?

So, your marriage is in limbo now you say? You are here because you are hoping there might be a path to saving it? Does she share your interest in saving it?

What is the current living situation?

How old are your children may I ask? I am also very sorry for the loss of your first wife!   

wishing you peace, pearl.