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What a b#@# my uBPDxgf actually was (or could be).
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Hi all,
I recently head this song and it left me in tears. After watching the video i was litteraly flabbergasted. This song is definately about a BPD relationship. It's like the video was shot in my house.
Please share your thoughts.
Date: 8-2016
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Made to Love You [Music Video] - Dan Owen
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Quote from: Wickit on August 07, 2018, 07:01:14 AM
I'd love to read a lot of details, because the BPD traits often manifest themselfs in the smallest things. I'm writing my story to post here as we speak, and the details make me understand and realize what a b*tch my uBPDxgf actually was (or could be).
Tell us what happened!
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WOW... .yes... .WOW... .speechless
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Who's choice was it to go NC? How did this other person enter the picture? As others have said fill us in, I'm interested in hearing your story. Hang in there.
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Hi there Wickit,
Quote from: Wickit on August 17, 2018, 06:02:07 AM
Hi all,
I recently head this song and it left me in tears. After watching the video i was litteraly flabbergasted. This song is definately about a BPD relationship. It's like the video was shot in my house.
I'm sorry that watching this video has brought back some rather unpleasant things, and its making you feel terrible.
Were the scenes playing in this video similar to what you've experienced? Takecare and go slow, we're here to listen ya.
Yours,
Spero.
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Jesus, that was so sad. I'm probably a little too fresh and raw in my break-up to have really watched that, but it gives a good perspective. It shows the fragile side of the BPD person, and how hard it is as the non to not want to protect them, even when they are causing pain. Watching her hit him while he just stood there and took it was gut-wrenchingly painful to see.
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