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I've tried no contact, threat of police. She obeys no boundary I put up
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To clarify, I am done, but I know she hasn't quit. I'll have other questions on how to end this on her side. I've tried no contact, threat of police. She obeys no boundary I put up, does not process the negative feelings.
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Quote from: lookslikeaduck on November 27, 2018, 09:11:25 AM
She was amazing and awful. I am trying to gain perspective... .
Can you give us a thumbnail sketch of the relationship? Ages, length, live-in, kids, great things, worse things... .
Let's dig in!
Welcome lookslikeaduck!
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did you initiate the breakup?
what medium is she reaching out on, text, email, phone, in person?
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I think skip and once removed asked some solid questions about the relationship. Feel free to share so we may better understand and help
Hope you’re doing well the last few days buddy
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How have things been duck?
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Hi lookslikeaduck,
Quote from: lookslikeaduck on November 27, 2018, 09:14:36 AM
I've tried no contact, threat of police. She obeys no boundary I put up, does not process the negative feelings.
Previous poster asked about how you two stay in touch, how does she break NC? Are you saying that you ask her to not contact you and she'll break that boundary? Would like to hear more.
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