I'll leave you with this gem... .we've been together for 11 years (married for 8) and I thought I always had a good relationship with his family... .they are also grandparents/aunts and uncles to our D4. So as I always did, I sent them all Christmas cards (signed my name but the pics on the card is D4 and the dog, I wasn't in the pics). I did not get a single card from anyone in his family.
Whoa WantToBeFree!... .that's my line too!... .eleven years together, and eight married!
And same here, her FOO came here to my house with trucks and trailers and moved her outa here on a Saturday, and a Sunday... .it was awful... .
I offered to pay movers, but she wouldn't have it... .must be a shame thing?
And like you, as soon as they got "wind", .me and my kids got ghosted... .I guess it did not matter to them that she beat my kid in his noggin... .ugh ; (
I did not get a single card from anyone in his family.
Me2... .
I even saw my (step) BIL in the local diner a few days later, and he acted like he did not even see me, almost cranked his neck trying to avoid eye cntact ... .
It wasn't but a few weeks prior to this, that me and him went fishing, at night, and for the entire nine hours, he could not stop telling me how much of a b@atch his wife is, and this and that, and how he has been making time with the secretaries daughter who is in her twenties... .I said nothing to uBPDw when I got back home that night, as this is her sister and all... .and not but three weeks later, my marriage implodes... .BIL and uBPDw's sis have been married for thirty-years!
They don't have any children... .anyways... .wow,
And yes, you can pack up your "H's" gear, its called "house cleaning"... .my uBPDw took everything pretty much she wanted, I encouraged it... .but having her entire "male FOO" here moving it all, both BIL's... .two nephews, and her sister#2... that was weird... .
... .both the other sisters have their husbands under complete subjugation... .
I guess that is why the one I went fishing with makes time with the boss's secretary's daughter... ... .because he told me he hasn't gotten any (sex) from her (uBPDw's sister) for years now... .wow... .none of my business, certainly not... .but not quite sure why he told me all about it... and then he "ghosts me"... .and is forced to help his SIL move out... .too funny, .but its not,
What a mess... .
Hang in there WantToBeFree,
Yeah, eleven and eight are my numbers too,
Red5