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Tired... so tired... On the rollercoaster with my BPD husband, I put up with yelling, yet let him know constantly how it affects me with no change. No passion at all. Sex only twice a year.
This is my 2rd relationship that fit the same behaviors. My 18 year old daughter called me an Emotional Martyr So that’s now my name I use on here.
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Quote from: EmotionalMartyr on March 12, 2019, 06:38:00 PM
Tired... so tired... On the rollercoaster with my BPD.
I put up with yelling, yet let him know constantly how it affects me with no change.
No passion at all. Sex only twice a year.
This is my 2rd relationship that fit the same behaviors.
Me2...
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