Hi and welcome to the site! I am glad you found us and are reaching out for support. We have parents on this board who really understand and will be able to at least listen as you work things out. We also have several parents with adopted children posting as well.
We believed we had saved her from a life frought with major difficulties (either with foster parents or her own mom).
You did save her and are now being supportive and loving parents by trying to get her help and help for yourself as well.
It is good that your daughter and husband were able to repair their relationship. What a devastating thing to have to deal with. How are you managing with everything?
As for ourselves we will reach out for help as well. Most of our work will be navigating how we react to her in the future and how we navigate keeping her safe.
Having your own support system is vital as I am sure you know. We can help with strategies for communication and some troubleshooting techniques as well. In the mean time, I hope you settle in and read and feel free to jump into other posts as that will help you as well.
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