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« Reply #30 on: May 15, 2019, 09:19:37 PM »

Well, the threats and intimidation didn't take long, TPS

Where did you get your cats from? Was it a shelter? That's where he might take them, so you could call them and ask them to hold your cats for you if he does take them there.

Calling the cops and having them take the cats away... LOL! Try to ignore him now, TPS. He feels he's losing control over you and it will just get more ugly.

I've just got to say bravo, TPS! You are really awesome! You've got this 


Sure didn't take long SaM
Ive had my cats for 9 years. I got them from a lady
I don't see him taking them to a shelter I see him letting them out
Thank you so much! Hugs
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« Reply #31 on: May 15, 2019, 09:26:35 PM »

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I said I'm not going to listen to your threats anymore. Youre being childish. If you want to make things worse thats on you. I said I'll contact your family and let them know what you did. And I recalled that convo we had with them the last time and he said that never happened. They will testify if they have to. I said I have all the texts. If they get on the stand and lie thats called perjury. He responded with I'm not saying another word until I get my lawyer.

I understand the hurt, anger, frustration, stress that is driving this.  All of this talk is adding fuel to the fire.  Stop, please.

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but you are also at the highest risk of escalated violence if you return to get your kitties and belongings.
Read this again.

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I'm in a live chat with one right now
So you called a hotline.  good.  Do you have an appointment?  What did they advise?
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« Reply #32 on: May 16, 2019, 07:17:19 PM »

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