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Author Topic: why do i keep ending up with bdp people in my life  (Read 374 times)
lisav
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Sibling
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« on: July 03, 2019, 01:10:00 AM »

firts it was my sister, then it was my husband and now my art dealer...lies manipulation gas lighting making me feel
like i cam never do enough be right recieve reapect
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Parent
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« Reply #1 on: July 05, 2019, 10:21:42 AM »

Hi lisav Welcome new member (click to insert in post)

I am sorry you seem to have encountered multiple disordered people in your life.

What exactly is your art dealer doing to you?

You mention your sister and husband. How is your relationship with them currently?

Take care and I hope to read more of your story later  

The Board Parrot
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
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« Reply #2 on: July 05, 2019, 02:28:52 PM »

Hello there!  Welcome new member (click to insert in post)

I am finding that for me b/c it runs in the family it's familiar and feels comfortable.  Which means for me, I just need to be aware of this attraction that I have and visa versa and do things differently.  Kind of like going against the grain.  The good news is I am forming healthier r/s with people in recovery.

Keep on reading about the disorder.  Learning about the disorder is the beginning of awareness and with that new information you can make more informed decisions.  We don't know what we don't know. 

Keep posting and talking about here.  This is a safe place to do that.

Ts


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