how can i get help for spouse of bpd

[bpdwife1000]

 I am reaching my breaking point in marriage.
my husband is doing really bad and blaming me again for his bpd and much more

I really need support - I don't like to write a lot of details on a public forum that anyway can go to
is there any other support i can get? (especially when everything has to be virtual)

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[once removed]

I really need support - I don't like to write a lot of details on a public forum that anyway can go to
is there any other support i can get? (especially when everything has to be virtual)

i get the feeling. youre safe here. there are 100000 members, millions of posts, all with overlapping stories. so long as you dont use real names or things that will obviously identify you, you wont be found here.

what is your husband blaming you for?

[bpdwife1000]

everything

that we have no relationship   

any issues any kids have

all problems in his life must start with me (including  his bpd)

[once removed]

what is he saying about these things?

what are you saying?

[bpdwife1000]

I usually keep quiet and just tell him I will work on improving myself  (in result to all this criticism of all my problems)