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Should I wish Happy Mothers Day to an ex UBPD/NPD?
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We are separated 2 years, it has been difficult to disconnect. Adult children are 19,23,26,35,41. Ex is making overatures of reconnecting. I have been grey rock and have no desire to reconnect. Youngest just suggested I send a quick text saying HMD! I think not. Thoughts?
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We have been in a similar situation. My husband's ex did not react well to our marriage -- the adult children were happy for him. They are 39, 41, 45 now. Since we married 14 years ago, my DH sends a simple text -- "Happy Mother's Day!"
Anything else, even after 15 years, gives her an opening he doesn't want to deal with.
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