hi Stew007,
can you clarify for us...
do i have it right that the two of you hadnt spoken for 4 months until she sent the email, you took a few weeks, youve followed up twice?
She emailed me and followed me up twice , I responded and she hasn't responded. I sent two text messages while I was out under the influence one didn't make sense and the other was just XOXOX... No reply
She logs into another IG account daily which is my companies (I own a company) and she worked for me, hence she has access... The only one besides me ... She logs in daily at least 3-5 x and checks up on me and views my stories and then she also likes post from chicks she thinks are POI for me that are in reality not from this account. Yes I should change the password ... But I still love her and it makes me think there is a chance. She knows that I know she is watching my stories from the work account.
She also hasn't updated her linkedin it still has her working for my company and she logs in and like my best mates LinkedIn Post all the time...
We broke up as I couldn't handle her always responded to her ex and she wouldn't show us on any social platform ,... The relationship only lasted 10 months and there is an age gap between us.
I want to see if there is a chance to reconnect and how do I do this and ensure we have a more stable relationship in the future ? She is a passive BPD and has some narcissistic traits also very competitive and I think she is angry at me as she had a really good lifestyle with me.
She hasn't really worked since our breakup and is living back in her country town. I know she is still talking to the other ex but she isn't with him as she is 2.5 hours drive away and has been there since our break up. In our 10 months together we travelled a lot and spent 90% of our time together.
She broke up with me in the end , As we went to Bali and had a big fight on the last day and we made our own ways separately to the airport ... I tried to save it but we broke up officially 2 weeks later after we spent time apart and she went back to the farm.
We did catch up for a date 30 days later and I didn't try to win her back but she was shut off and negative towards me. saying she couldn't be herself ... and that she is moving back to the country etc ... She was also trying to make me jealous and its the first date she turned up early and on time for... We had a couple of drinks and then parted.
She then hacked my work email , bloke some email addresses of female clients , she had access to my Spotify and kept on changing y music why I was listening to it to break up songs. and then she started a new IG account and put a gift that I gave her (SURF BOARD) as post and said sliding in to your mans DMs. She has got her sister to post recently wearing a Tiffany and Co bracelet I gave her she took off post break up looked very staged ...
is she just bitter and angry at me ... or Is she still attached and wants me to chase ?
Again she is very passive aggressive , Covert type of narcissism ... What do I do to get her to stop hating me and reverse this break up?
Sorry for the long post I haven't chased once ... All her other exes would have
