I'm glad your arm is better.
She sends your son 100 texts a day plus makes him Skype for an hour? That is a huge pressure to deal with. I can't imagine how he is getting through classes and studying with all that going on.
I would definitely expect a huge extinction burst when he does set boundaries around communication with her.
Can you take someone with you to the house for a witness just in case she pops back up unexpectedly while you are there?
It would not be likely since she will be going 350 miles on the train to see her son and he will be reporting her movements to me. Once I know she is on the train back I will go.
Yes he has, as much as me in his short life - had to endure this dangerous cocktail of emotions and behaviour. Its harder for him since she will always be his mother. She also has him phone her at 5.50 am for a 20 minute chat, believing he goes to bed at 10 PM. In fact he is often up very late - he is a student. This will have to stop too.
Its all about HER needs.
I do hope she is going up to look at accomodation too.
She is threatening not to co-operate with selling the house if I continue to insult her in my email replies. She accused me of not being with my mother but with the young attractive woman at a nearby store I get on well with (absurd I am 56 she is mid 20s). I sent her a photo of my mother I took yesterday - probably should not have but I dont want her going around accusing me of running off with a young or any other woman.
I am living happily with my mother and thank goodness she is still alive and has her wits at 77.
I think because I came back before she thinks she can get me back again if she perseveres. I told her the circumstances have changed - son is near 18 and I have much more money now to satisfying all my expenses.
Am looking at a flat tomorrow - in the same block as my mother. She could do with me being around for a while as she is all alone here and needs my support.