How can someone understand

[BPD OWNER]

I was married for 33 years when she left me a month ago.She said it was a great 2weeks of the new year then on jan 12 she said she was tired of walking on eggshells and left me one night.Been trying to talk to her but I just get so depressed for hurting her. Tried to talked to psychiatrists, but find it really hard too( i have BPD)Talk to him when he says things like I know how you feel .How can anyone know how I feel unless they have been thourgh it with  BPD. It has gotten so bad lately that I'm  drinking 2 bottles of vodka every night for the last week. I even wrote my suicide note this week,but didn't go though with it .because of my youngest daughter(she love guns and i didn't want to ruin that for her).I'M guess I'm  looking for a away to get thourgh this.

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[Scared2Lose]

Hey man,

How are you doing today? I want to tell you that you're a good person and the evidence is in the fact that you recognize you need help.

I do not know how you feel. But I am familiar with a feeling of helplessness. And speaking from experience, I know that feeling will pass. Especially since you are actively seeking help, which a lot of people in your position aren't able to do.

We're here and we're listening. Let it out.

[Turkish]

Hello BPD OWNER,

I can imagine you feel devastated that your wife left you, especially after a good start of the year. I'm sorry that you're struggling, but it's good that you reached out for support.

This board is tailored for those who are working to better there relationships with loved ones with BPD, or those looking to detach and heal from such relationships. As so, members here won't be able to support you for what you need. Please take a look at these resources, as they can connect you and better support you.

Resources for BPD Sufferers

I hope that thing work out for you, and that you do get the proper support that you need.

Take Care,

Turkish