Hi Ourworld,
Thank you for your words of encouragement!
My heart hurts for you that your daughter has blocked you for years. It’s breaking my heart that I’ve been given the silent treatment for just months at a time and I cannot imagine how hurtful it is for you that your daughter has been blocking you for such a long time.
This is not the first time my son has gone silent so I have hope that he will eventually reach out, especially when he needs something. I know where he lives because I co-signed his apartment lease!
He told me late last year that he is in therapy and wanted me to speak with his therapist so I “could understand him more.” I spoke with her but don’t know if he’s still seeing her. I have read tons of books on how to respond to him and validate his feelings but I confess everything went out the window when he challenged me to remember how I abused him. Uggghhh.
He doesn’t respond to emails, only texts. I will probably break down and reach out to him at some point even if he ignores me. Something in my heart tells me he needs me to show I care.
I pray your daughter gets help and one day remembers how close you were when she was younger. I think we both know that until our child takes accountability for their own lives, they will continue the blame game. So sad.