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A 3 Minute Lesson
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Don't Be Invalidating
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Setting Boundaries
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improving life with wife of 35 years bugs6 2 42 Last post September 29, 2017, 08:21:10 AM
by Tattered Heart
Relationship improvement arlett 4 73 Last post September 29, 2017, 02:01:25 AM
by JoeBPD81
Writing feelings down? Useful or trap? « 1 2  All » Tarquin42 13 185 Last post September 28, 2017, 10:14:21 PM
by Chosen
Married 23 years and think I just figured it out « 1 2  All » virtualfriday 11 152 Last post September 28, 2017, 08:23:40 PM
by Tired_Dad
My partner has left me and shows BPD like sypmtoms Ford Prefect 3 67 Last post September 28, 2017, 03:56:48 PM
by Meili
I cant tell if its her or me. Anine320 2 62 Last post September 28, 2017, 03:30:48 PM
by Mutt
Greetings rrent 2 35 Last post September 28, 2017, 03:13:01 PM
by Mutt
For those who've been successful living with a BPD spouse, how do you find peace « 1 2  All » WildernessMan 10 216 Last post September 28, 2017, 02:26:01 PM
by storagecold
Tired of the rollercoaster Happylost 9 181 Last post September 28, 2017, 01:08:39 PM
by 2Strong2Long
How do I even begin? I unknowingly triggered him. misuniadziubek 4 71 Last post September 28, 2017, 10:31:34 AM
by Tattered Heart
How to deal with the cycle of broken promises? OnceHadMoxie 2 96 Last post September 28, 2017, 08:37:03 AM
by OnceHadMoxie
GF relapsed 6 months ago Colhouse 3 72 Last post September 28, 2017, 08:09:28 AM
by Tattered Heart
My hubby was diagnosed with BPD last year Fracturedheart88 2 39 Last post September 28, 2017, 08:06:12 AM
by Tattered Heart
MOVED: Does anyone else have anger towards your inlaws? DaddyBear77 0 23 Last post September 27, 2017, 09:18:30 PM
by DaddyBear77
Introverted (non diagnosed BPD?) Ex just dropped a bomb and left... Cg20 5 139 Last post September 27, 2017, 08:55:04 PM
by Cg20
Black/ white splitting shakes my sense of self Chosen 9 175 Last post September 27, 2017, 07:20:56 PM
by urbabyunicorn
Husband has been diagnosed. I'm back after a few years Graceinaction 4 71 Last post September 27, 2017, 05:15:39 PM
by Graceinaction
How Do I Pick Myself Back Up? hobbit 8 100 Last post September 27, 2017, 12:43:22 PM
by hobbit
I have been posting on the post break up boards, but hope for advice here... Emotions 3 106 Last post September 27, 2017, 10:44:50 AM
by DaddyBear77
Problems with sex and BPD Muia 2 78 Last post September 27, 2017, 09:34:26 AM
by isilme
MOVED: a friend with BPD broke up with me Tattered Heart 0 19 Last post September 27, 2017, 09:26:25 AM
by Tattered Heart
I am so tired of being accused of being a smart ass and having an attitude. Wonderland2017 2 51 Last post September 27, 2017, 06:33:27 AM
by Skip
Black and white question and a bit of background « 1 2 3 4  All » Whoad 38 923 Last post September 27, 2017, 05:00:33 AM
by Whoad
30 year saga Latrodge 4 110 Last post September 26, 2017, 09:21:06 PM
by Mutt
MOVED: She has filed for divorce 6 times ( I now see that I responded wrongly to her) DaddyBear77 0 18 Last post September 26, 2017, 04:14:45 PM
by DaddyBear77
How to make things better after being called names? Letloverule 4 111 Last post September 26, 2017, 03:30:25 PM
by once removed
Setting boundaries for sex « 1 2 3  All » OnceHadMoxie 23 489 Last post September 26, 2017, 02:31:18 PM
by Wentworth
How do I support my wife's need to inform family members of her hurt feelings « 1 2  All » Cole 11 132 Last post September 26, 2017, 12:21:01 PM
by Cole
I want to navigate the stress in self-affirming ways opentoideas 2 54 Last post September 26, 2017, 09:21:12 AM
by Tattered Heart
Gold Metal in push-pull goes to my wife. « 1 2 3  All » Cole 22 306 Last post September 26, 2017, 06:13:11 AM
by Cole
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