Well 3 years is long enough, but I finally received a gift that I'd been hoping for... . a buddy sent me a link to a Twitter feed yesterday that finally allowed the world to lay eyes on my "replacement." In addition to his disgustingly vile feed which included messages to both her daughters came a profile pic. The man is absolutely hideous looking--old enough to be her father, obese, cigar smoking (not that there's anything wrong with that), pinky-ring wearing, gross man! I haven't stalked... . have maintained hardcore NC... . and can't even describe my sense of complete closure. The sense of "OMG/What the heck?" is hugely buoying. So I guess FB/Twitter might be good for something after all!
I can relate as I was replaced by a man nine years older than her, big balding forehead, beer gut, and nothing special at all, other than the fact they worked together.
She always had a poor choice in men. Her mother said she never expected her to date someone like me because I wasn't her type. I was confused by that then but it makes more sense now.
