Wife Wants Divorce With No Attorneys

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

What do I do about kids though... I am seeing a lawyer, but being that they are both step kids... I do not see alot of rights I have.  One of their dads is in prison and the other is a relative deadbeat.  She JUST started her first job outside of cleaning houses in about 7 years at $11 an hour, and even though she will progress fast I am sure in web design, that still means she cannot afford all she has on her plate...  that means kids suffer.

I mean I do feel horrible for her... her mother is dying quickly now, her father just lost his job and is appearing to lose cognitive abilities, she has a degree and starting at a job that pays so little, she has had a recent traumatic experience with a doctor, she got herself a DWI, she has BPD, two teenagers acting like teenagers...

these are not what I caused, but its a heavy load.  

[hurthusband]

What do I do about kids though... I am seeing a lawyer, but being that they are both step kids... I do not see alot of rights I have.  One of their dads is in prison and the other is a relative deadbeat.  She JUST started her first job outside of cleaning houses in about 7 years at $11 an hour, and even though she will progress fast I am sure in web design, that still means she cannot afford all she has on her plate...  that means kids suffer.

I mean I do feel horrible for her... her mother is dying quickly now, her father just lost his job and is appearing to lose cognitive abilities, she has a degree and starting at a job that pays so little, she has had a recent traumatic experience with a doctor, she got herself a DWI, she has BPD, two teenagers acting like teenagers...

these are not what I caused, but its a heavy load.  

[DreamGirl]

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