I've posted on here today I think about my now exBPDNPD bi-polargf I ended a two yr live in with in July. She was in sales. HIGH end. All her life. I dont' want to repeat myself here, but she could and admittedly stated "sales, she could sell you ss** and you'd buy it"... we talked about this one night during dating and she admitted it was part of her NPD as well. She knew what men wanted... she worked primarily in business with male clients and perfected it... as she said, "sex sells" and she didn't sell anything related to "sex" but she dress the part, talked the game, had them eating out of her hand and dated most, if not has sex with most of her male clients. THAT alone, should have been a
for me, because she was so hell bent on her abilities in sales and never failed to brag about her "selling rights". When dating, I remember her roomate (female girl next door type vs Dragon woman) was also in sales and she asked my "ex" to join her going to some of her clients to promote some business (my ex would normally do in office) to break it up. At the end of the day when I arrived at my "exs" place the poor roomate had this look of shallowness to her. I asked how the day went with my "ex"... (she was in the shower): Verbatim: "OMG, she just outshined me. I mean, she didn't have to say a damn word and the male business owners just ignored ME and went straight to her. She just poured on charm and was demur and charming, said all the right things, shook hands the right way, dressed to kill in her stelletos and skirt her top so damn revealing... XXXX, I have NEVER been up staged in my life and I've been in this business for 20 year... so she has 10 more years on me, but if THIS is how she conducts business NO wonder she was never sitting home on a Friday night! She sold sex... is what she did. Professionally, but she was selling HER, then the product"
I never will forget that night. My ex came out and was on top of the world bragging on the day went and trying to convince the poor roomate HOW it was done and HOW she dated some major players that were clients and in the long run had all her needs (even financial) taken care of ...
And this is how she got her last job before I kicked her ass out this July... .she hit on the millionaire boss/owner and made him an offer he couldnt' refuse... she has since been promoted, her own office, increase in pay (substantial) now has a car he paid for and her rent is paid for...
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