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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: separated 2005 then divorced
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« Reply #120 on: June 06, 2013, 03:37:51 PM »

"I'm only asking for 4 more overnights (per month); we could just be amicable."

From what you wrote before, the temp order has him with 5 overnights every 2 weeks, 5 out of 14.  So his "amicable only 4 more" in a month would raise him to 7 out of 14.  Timewise, equal.  Amicable, my eye.   With his lower and spotty income, you can guess he's angling to get CS - or, failing that, to avoid paying CS.

I have custody and 7 out of 14 days, equal time.  Due to our "income disparity" - though ex has never disclosed to the court her income - I pay my ex almost as much in CS as I did when I had 3 out of 14.  Meanwhile I have yet to see a penny in order-authorized reimbursements all these years.  No consequences, no credit.

See you on the new thread.
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