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Re: When They Dump You: Recycling Questions
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Quote from: Sabratha on October 14, 2013, 08:56:07 AM
Balance. Reciprocity, these are not in a BPD dynamic at all.
Hallelujah!
The day she started telling me how to use the toilet I finally discovered that.
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You're kidding?
why in heck would she be interested in that?
Mine came raging up the stair one time, because he had put the toilet roll on the
wrong way
and blamed me. I was unaware there was a "right" way... .silly me
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Quote from: Sabratha on October 14, 2013, 09:54:32 AM
You're kidding?
why in heck would she be interested in that?
Another emasculation attempt she used as part of the devaluation. I let her words matter for too long as it was, but that one crossed the line, and was one of many during a very dysregulated and shtty weekend towards the end. The things we put up with... .
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