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« Reply #60 on: October 14, 2013, 09:44:56 AM »

  Balance. Reciprocity, these are not in a BPD dynamic at all.

Hallelujah!   Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)

The day she started telling me how to use the toilet I finally discovered that.
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« Reply #61 on: October 14, 2013, 09:54:32 AM »

You're kidding?  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post) why in heck would she be interested in that? 

Mine came raging up the stair one time, because he had put the toilet roll on the wrong way and blamed me. I was unaware there was a "right" way... .silly me 
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« Reply #62 on: October 14, 2013, 10:07:34 AM »

You're kidding?  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post) why in heck would she be interested in that? 

Another emasculation attempt she used as part of the devaluation.  I let her words matter for too long as it was, but that one crossed the line, and was one of many during a very dysregulated and shtty weekend towards the end.  The things we put up with... .
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« Reply #63 on: October 15, 2013, 12:42:31 PM »

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