Fantasy and reality

[Harlygirl]

How do I reconcile that my BPDexbf had/has multiple parallel relationships? Is the "primary"relationship more "real" and less fantasy?... .How are these relationships different?... .Or if they are not different, than how are they the same?

[Mutt]

Do you mean Karpman drama triangle?

[LettingGo14]

How do I reconcile that my BPDexbf had/has multiple parallel relationships? Is the "primary"relationship more "real" and less fantasy?... .How are these relationships different?... .Or if they are not different, than how are they the same?

Hi Harlygirl,

Where are you in your healing process?  How does understanding your ex help at this moment?  

I ask sincerely because you have been on a journey for answers, and I would like to understand how it fits into helping you heal.

Thanks,

LG14