I'm having a hard time understanding how they can be so hateful. I can understand knocking the heck out of somebody that is going to hurt you, but doing it to someone (not physically)that's only crime was loving you, I cant fathom. I would have taken a bullet for that women which makes me feel stupid.
I have asked similar questions millions of times. Heck, I have asked my husband similar questions and he just shrugs and looks at me like I am a friggin' weirdo.
I don't think they are capable of love or loyalty or anything of the sort. I know that he rarely takes up for me in any situation. I feel like I could be dying and he wouldn't really care unless it required something of him. I am the female yet our wedding was all about him and his family. That should have been a red flag all of those years ago but I didn't think anything of it because I wasn't really religious so it didn't matter to me if we had to get married in his church to appease him and his family.
In all honesty, I hope I never ever truly understand what makes a person behave that way. I can't wrap my mind around it and am actually glad that I can't. It means that I am not a thoughtless butthole. If I behaved the way my husband has over the years, I couldn't live with myself