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Author Topic: I just wrote this for me and all of us here on this journey  (Read 559 times)
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« on: April 16, 2015, 01:36:15 PM »

I have never done anything like this in my life but this just spilled out... . for me i'm kinda pleased with my musing  

I found a place in my heart one day

a place of sun and light that would never go away

i shared this place with you and said you could stay

but my light and sun you took away

the place you left was cold and dark

but a place i knew there was a spark

so i took that spark and lit a flame

and now my place has warmth again

this place has peace and love i know

this place has room for me to grow

this place is not to be hidden away

and this place will be shared with someone one day

this place is me and all i will be

this place is mitatsu and i'm glad i'm me


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« Reply #1 on: April 16, 2015, 01:41:22 PM »

A fantastic piece of poetry.

Thank you for sharing it with us.

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« Reply #2 on: April 16, 2015, 02:34:12 PM »

I have never done anything like this in my life but this just spilled out... . for me i'm kinda pleased with my musing  

I found a place in my heart one day

a place of sun and light that would never go away

i shared this place with you and said you could stay

but my light and sun you took away

the place you left was cold and dark

but a place i knew there was a spark

so i took that spark and lit a flame

and now my place has warmth again

this place has peace and love i know

this place has room for me to grow

this place is not to be hidden away

and this place will be shared with someone one day

this place is me and all i will be

this place is mitatsu and i'm glad i'm me

Awwww... . that was just so darn touching... . I guess some tears are better than others... . these were good tears... . Thank you for sharing Mitatsu. It was extremely thoughtful of you and shows your tenderness.
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« Reply #3 on: April 16, 2015, 10:42:29 PM »

Love this!  Your words are inspire the best in me.   Thank you.   
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« Reply #4 on: April 16, 2015, 11:27:22 PM »

Eloquently stated mitatsu
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« Reply #5 on: April 16, 2015, 11:43:10 PM »

Love this
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« Reply #6 on: April 17, 2015, 12:00:43 AM »

beautiful
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